7 Tips - How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Now

Dating is a complex game, and sometimes things can go wrong. Males and Females are quite different and it takes a lot of effort and understanding to keep things on track and maintaining a 'happy medium.' That being said, when it goes wrong, it can do so in a severe manner, even as far as stretching to a breakup in some cases. If that situation has occurred for you, the chances are you want to get your ex boyfriend back again, as it is not unknown to suffer a separation and then realize what you have lost soon after. The biggest issue with this is that the terms and conditions need to be met and honoured, in order to prevent a second occurrence of a breakup in the future.

Take on board these hints and tips to win your ex back and start the process of recovery.

Stay attractive for your ex.

Nothing changes here, in order to have your ex interested in you; you need to be looking good. It sounds shallow, but a man likes to have a woman on his arms that he is attracted to (and vice versa). Recall how you looked when you first met, and go all out to impress him and make him realize what he is missing. The next time he sees you, make sure you knock him out with shock as to how great you are looking and feeling. This is a vital and excellent step to win back your love. Look smart and focused, get your hair done etc. At whatever cost, make him understand that you are back!

Speak highly of your ex and your relationship with him.

Make sure you always have good words to say about your ex boyfriend and do not bad mouth him in anyway. This is a sure way never to win your ex boyfriend back. It is a small world these days and with the use of social media it does not take too long for words to spread. Have positive things to say and let the words be known that you still think about them and you hope they are doing well. These kind gestures spread at the same velocity as bad ones, and your ex boyfriend will soon get wind of these positive messages.

Make it clear that the separation was a good step for you.

This is a crucial step, and especially so if it was your ex boyfriend that was calling the shots. If he was the one that broke up with you, be sure he will be quite shocked and surprised to hear that you are happy about it. If anything, he will question his actions and you can guarantee he will want to see for himself, the reasons you are feeling better about yourself. Make sure when he does, you are ready to blow him away, as he understands in a second the mistake(s) he has made.

Make new friends.

Gear yourself forward to being sociable. Find some new friends and spend time with them. Go out dancing and catch a flick or two. Fill your time and have some fun. You are single for a while so go and enjoy yourself. It will take your mind off your ex and will make you feel better. Besides, if you do happen to catch the eye of your ex; seeing you have fun without him will certainly send his mind racing.

Make contact with old friend which you both shared.

So, what is your best move? You have your old friends (who you are both acquainted with), and your new friends (who he is not). Of course, let's introduce everybody! People love nothing more than gossip. So by means of getting everyone together and having a great time, this news will take a matter of minutes to get back to your ex. Now, with this step, be sure to tread carefully. What you are looking to achieve here is making sure your ex understand that you are getting on with your life. You are not out to make him jealous or angry. There is a fine line to him seeing you have fun, and you rubbing it in his face and carrying out actions to upset him. So, why not have him invited to your social gathering, this way nothing is being done behind his back and you are being completely upfront. Remember, you are with friends to have fun; this is not a trap to corner him into getting back together.

Do not pay him attention.

This sounds like a childish action to undertake but it is not so if done correctly. We are not talking about walking out of a room every time he walks in, and we are not talking about being rude or arrogant towards him. Just behave passively and do not make any attempt to make the first move. Try to avoid the glance from across a crowded room etc. The idea is to be looking and feeling fantastic and allowing him to witness it, while at the same time, letting him know you are now happy with yourself and how life is going. You have made new friends and kept the old ones and you are having a great time. This can all be achieved without saying a single word to him.

Now give the impression you are ready to move on.

Again, this is a step that should be taken with care and consideration. The plan is to make your boyfriend think that you have closure from the relationship you had with him, and you are available to meet someone else when the right guy comes along. The thing is here, not to make him jealous by grabbing the nearest guy and making him witness you with another. This is certainly not a good move. Make him think you are now neutral. You are available. He needs to make his case now or never. Do this correctly and he will start his steps to get you back.

Please note: in order to get your boyfriend back these steps need to be strictly monitored at all times. Remember, you are not going out there to hurt somebody's feelings. The second you hurt your ex boyfriend the game is over. You have lost him. Basically, you are putting yourself out there to let him see you are content with the breakup and are taking the necessary steps to move on with your life. This can be done without being spiteful and if you want to win back your ex boyfriend you should avoid this malignant display. Remain calm and focused and do not behave erratically. Keep things moving slowly, step by step, and with care and consideration. Follow your heart and you can win your ex back positively.